My husband has been eager to purchase a balance bike for our son for quite some time. However, as his mother, I had certain expectations. My son is fascinated by anything that moves—trains, buses, cars, taxis, airplanes, and even his stroller, which he enjoys pushing around.
In our area, riding bicycles is a popular activity that starts from a young age and continues well into adulthood. While many children in Africa begin with tricycles, here they often start with balance bikes. These bikes help kids learn to ride independently, but they also require considerable stamina and motivation. Before we moved from Kenya, my son was just beginning to enjoy his tricycle.
Though we were excited about this new phase of cycling, I had some reservations. My son is independent and tends to learn more from his cousins than from us. They taught him how to kick a ball, ride his tricycle, and even walk. I knew teaching him to ride a bike would be challenging, especially since we couldn’t demonstrate it ourselves.
If my 11-year-old nephew had shown him how to ride the balance bike, I believe my son would have picked it up quickly. But since it’s just us adults around, he prefers to push the bike rather than sit on it. Consequently, we’ve decided to return the balance bike and opt for a tricycle instead.
My son has always been adventurous and enjoyed the outdoors, especially when he was younger and had plenty of space to play at my parents’ home. Now, living in an apartment with unpredictable weather, his enthusiasm for outdoor activities seems to be waning. Often, when we take him outside, he tugs at us after a while, asking to go home.
His interests—ranging from food to cartoons and toys—are constantly evolving. As parents, we do our best to keep up with his changing preferences while also introducing him to new experiences. We believe exposure, curiosity, and environment significantly shape a child’s interests. Despite his strong opinions, we continue to provide him with diverse opportunities, hoping to nurture a well-rounded and knowledgeable child.